Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts

Sunday, May 3, 2015

What's Wrong with Bruce Jenner


This post is my attempt to understand and work through the Catholic position on transgenderism.

It's a very loose and rough attempt. I welcome comments and criticism from everyone. 

Part of the problem is that the Catholic or Christian position has not been clearly or thoroughly set out. This is largely because much of the issue revolves around "advances" in medicine and science that are relatively recent. So, on transgenderism per se there isn't a 4,000 year-old moral and theological tradition. Now, the modern Catholic Church could come out with up-to-date guidance on the matter. But at the moment, under the leadership of Pope Francis, it is more interested in appearing "non-judgmental" to the secular world.

That means no more sin definitions for the time being.

And certainly no more disorder definitions.

Unless of course you're a litterer.

But the other part of the problem is that "transgenderism" covers many different things. For example, it's not merely about "sex-change" operations.

To simplify, let's define it as such.

One difficulty is that while transgenderism is by definition an issue of sexual morality, it differs in kind from the other well-known sexual morality issues. Let's digress for a moment and set those out. Cover your eyes if you're easily offended by sex things. Here goes:

Masturbation
Pornography
Birth control
Homosexual acts
Pre-marital sex

Okay, so I admit this blog post is starting to sound like a song from Hair.

Now, if you're one of my non-Catholic or non-Christian friends, you are probably about to be offended. Or worse, you're going to laugh at me. I apologize if you're offended. But it's okay if you laugh.

The caricature is that the things on the above list are sins because of random and varied edicts from the Bible or Pope Linus XXIII or whatever. Even some Christians and Catholics probably look at it that way. But that's a misunderstanding.

Actually what unites them is the claim that sex was created by God to...well, to make more people. That was it's purpose. Using it in a way that frustrates that purpose is a sin. Another way of putting it is that using it in a way that frustrates that purpose is a rebellion against God.

(Note, though, that the fact that something was created for a purpose does not mean you should always have that purpose in mind when you contemplate or engage in that something. Nor is it wrong to want or desire to contemplate or engage in that something for proximate reasons having nothing to do with its purpose.)

That's the quick explanation of most sexual sin. Go ahead and laugh again. I find it kind of funny myself.

But transgenderism is different. It's not necessarily about the sexual act, like the other things are, but rather, your point of view or role within the sexual act, whether you actually have any sexual acts or not.

So, what's wrong with Bruce Jenner?

I think the basic idea is that virtually everyone was created by God to have a particular role. Some of that (though not all) is physical. You were given a body that comports with that role. The actual sex part follows from it but need not. For example, it doesn't (or shouldn't) follow from it if you're a priest or a nun, or a consecrated virgin or incorrigible bachelor or whatever.

A few people may have, so to speak, an issue with that role, or at least they might think that they do. Is that wrong? Not necessarily. It might better be called, in the language of the Catechism, a disorder.

Why does God create or at least allow disorders? That's a deep philosophical and theological question, and I'm not going to answer it here. But in essence it's on the same footing as asking why God creates or allows anything in this world that is imperfect.

The non-Catholic Christian apologist Jim Dennison presented "three theological facts" on the issue a few days ago:
One: none of us is the person we were created to be. "God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them" (Genesis 1:27). As fallen people, we have each distorted the image in which we were made, and feel a deep longing to fulfill our God-given identity and purpose. 
Two: suffering people are desperate for hope. Sex-reassignment surgery and hormone treatments are drastic measures. When we are in pain, we will try whatever promises to help. We need compassion and community, not ridicule and rejection. 
Three: separating the body from the soul heals neither. According to Dr. McHugh [Paul McHugh, the former psychiatrist-in-chief at Johns Hopkins Hospital], changing the physical gender does not heal the psyche. That's because God made us in his image, as unified in diversity as our Three-In-One Lord. Where we are wounded most deeply, we most need the transforming power of the Spirit.
So, here's what the church should say to Bruce Jenner: God's hope for you isn't to become a woman, but to be the man you were created to be...
Thus, it's not completely about the disordered versus the "normal" or whatever. Fundamentally, we're all disordered. Ever since our ancestors got kicked out of the garden, we've all had issues with how God created us. It's a bent world and we're part of it.

We are all Bruce Jenner.

Giving in to those issues is always unwise, often selfish, and potentially fatal. Eternally fatal. That's not a knock on Bruce Jenner. It's a warning for all of us.

The Catholic Church teaches that a person is not a soul trapped in a physical body--a mere ghost in a machine. If one were such a thing, then radically transforming one's body--say, to mimic the appearance of the opposite sex--might not only be permissible but perhaps irrelevant. Rather, according to the Catechism,
The human body shares in the dignity of "the image of God": it is a human body precisely because it is animated by a spiritual soul, and it is the whole human person that is intended to become, in the body of Christ, a temple of the Spirit. 
Man, though made of body and soul, is a unity. Through his very bodily condition he sums up in himself the elements of the material world. Through him they are thus brought to their highest perfection and can raise their voice in praise freely given to the Creator. For this reason man may not despise his bodily life. Rather he is obliged to regard his body as good and to hold it in honor since God has created it and will raise it up on the last day. 233 
The unity of soul and body is so profound that one has to consider the soul to be the "form" of the body: i.e., it is because of its spiritual soul that the body made of matter becomes a living, human body; spirit and matter, in man, are not two natures united, but rather their union forms a single nature (364-65).
Forty years ago, after years of training, Bruce Jenner, reached a pinnacle that few men have ever achieved. I have no idea whether he was a Christian then. In one sense, at least, it doesn't matter. He did something amazing by optimally developing the physical and spiritual gifts given to him by God. He didn't mutilate his body. He honored it. And he glorified God in a particular way that I suspect none of the rest of us have done or will ever do.

He was the man God created him to be.

But now and if he is to be believed, for many years, Bruce Jenner has, for all intents and purposes, wanted to destroy his body. In a mockery of Christ's promise to all of us, he wants a different one.

He won't get it.

But God grant that he will eventually get far more.

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

Naked Under My Burka: Sex Shop Owned by German Porn Giant Opening in Mecca

Relax. She's halal.

Okay, when I say "naked under my burka" I don't mean my burka. I mean it's the sort of thing a sexy Muslim woman who was naked under her burka might say. I haven't worn a burka since, well, since that sublime weekend interlude in Penang...

But I digress.

From the Arabic news portal Alyaoum24, via Malaysian Digest, via International Business Times, via Breitbart, via Drudge:
FOR THE PILGRIM WHO HAS NEARLY EVERYTHING: FIRST ‘HALAL’ SEX SHOP TO OPEN IN MECCA 
By Oliver Lane, Breitbart, 22 April, 2015: A Dutch-German ‘Sharia compliant’ sex aid company is to establish a shop in Mecca, the Saudi Arabian city considered holy in Islam as it is believed to be the birth place of Mohammed. 
Despite the outwardly controversial nature of the planned establishment, negotiations have taken place with local clerics and sheikhs to ensure it is fully compliant with Sharia law while owner Abdelaziz Aouragh says they are nearly ready to open. The Moroccan Muslim, who founded El Asira in 2012 said despite the commonly held belief that Muslim women are sexually repressed, this was not the case. 
Aouragh said: “The image of women in the kitchen with burqa is not a true picture… There is a lot of love and respect Islam has for adult women. Our store puts women at the center, offers information, and provides answers to frequently asked questions on sex” 
The company, which retails products such as ‘glide and care sensual silicone’ sexual lube from the ‘Sensual Arabica Collection’ and retails the ‘touch her gently creme’, has recently merged with German sex shop giant and porn baron Beate Uhse AG, the largest sex company in the world.
The El Asira website expounds on the philosophy of the company:
We believe that if couples don’t take the time to show the love for their partner nor themselves, they won’t be able to reach a deeper sensual, sexual or spiritual connection. That is what El Asira is trying to accomplish. In the end, we’d like to see our Sensual Arabica product range to be able to build bridges. Not only between the East and West, but more importantly, between man and woman. 
Will you join the enticing journey of Sensual Arabica? 
...El Asira puts women on a pedestal without embarrassing them. In our vision women deserve respect, so at El Asira, we communicate with them in a subtle and elegant way... 
El Asira is completely Sharia compliant. Contrary to popular belief, sharia compliance is not something eerie; it just means we develop products which are ‘halal’...all our products are maintaining the integrity, pure humanity and ethics inherent with the sharia... 
You were probably surprised when you entered our website and didn’t see products or images you’d normally see in a sex shop. Indeed, El Asira is different. Because we sell different products. Products with which we have set a different goal: to reach a deeper sensual, sexual or spiritual connection between man and woman.
Sharia compliance is not eerie. Who knew?

Sure enough, there are no blow up dolls or battery operated appliances. Just creams, oils and perfumes. In other words, about what you would find in the average Disney Store.

But Beate Uhse AG--"the largest sex company in the world"--is a bit different. In our exhaustive investigative research on the firm, we learned a number of fascinating facts:
  • The company was founded by Nazi "stunt pilot" Beate Uhse-Rotermund, who among other exploits, escaped Russian encircled Berlin in a mini-plane with her two-year-old son, his nanny and two other injured Germans squished in.
  • The company began in 1946 as a distributor of "family planning pamphlets" and was actually run by Ms. Uhse-Rotermund until her death in 2001.
  • She opened the world's first legal sex shop in Flensburg, West Germany in 1962.
  • Pornography was only legalized in Germany in 1976.
  • The company currently has sales of approximately 500 million dollars and owns multiple cinemas and sex shops as well as having a thriving mail-order business.
Here at Mahound's Paradise, we make no judgments (following the example of our Pope). If sex is good, sexy sex is better. And it's super-sexy better if you can have it with another person.

Or as one erotic poet put it:

Sex is natural, sex is fun
Sex is best when it's one on one.

And only one, you naughty-minded sheikh. Even if you have four wives, the rule is one at a time.

More than that would be Makrooh.